Creepy. Really creepy. So here it is. The massive 416 child abuse case, with polygamists living in San Angelo, Texas where they believe that Jeff Warren is the man that will lead them to salvation. Every time I see this on the news I can't even begin to imagine this clash of worlds in our modern judicial system.
I envision all of these women walking out of aJane Austin novel - but more in like a really creepy occult kind of way. I mean just picture the court hearings - a whole bunch of posh Texan lawyers in their fancy Armani suits, and about 1000 women carrying hairdos from the 1800's wearing clothe they have sewn themselves. The contradictions in this arrangement would be worthwhile of a portrait!
While I absolutely DO NOT agree with polygamy, I do respect relgious practice even if there are aspects about them that I do not agree. I believe that we should all be entitled to practice and believe whatever it is that we want to believe so long as we are not causing harm to ourselves or others. This is where the line though becomes very foggy. Including government interference in religious practices, because I also believe that church and state should have nothing to do with one another.
I think that this particular group of polygamists, and a number of these groups that have been exposed and at the forefront of media attention, really require us as a society to evaluate where the line between religion and practice, and government and religion intervene. While I am not here to comment on the practice of polygamy, I will note that for the children involved in this matter - there is no winning for them either way. If they return to their compound and there really was child abuse occuring, they are now again in dangerous and compromising situations. If there is abuse occuring, and they do not allow the children to return the compound, their societal values, social norms, moral practices, and spiritual beliefs do not coincide with the real world. Where do they fit in???
For a younger child (2-5), there may be some hope because they will be young enough to adapt. What happens to the children that are over the age of 10 - or even those who are 16 or 17? Will they ever be able to adapt to a life that doesn't beleive in dominant men, multiple women in a relationship, and fathering more children that most people have in their extended families? This is a sad and scary situation, and definitely one that will go down in the history books.
Notably Canada has hit the radar, as it would appears that BC, has some polygamist groups there - some that may be involved in this 416 child case! The interviews with the women of this compound give you major insight into their training of obeidience. They cleverly avert questions, and intervene if they feel that someone is providing too much information to the press, claim that all they want is their children to be with them - but never once asking what their child might be feeling, or might be needing. The tours of their "clean" homes show no sign of child activity, devoid of toys or anything that would resemble a normal childs life.
I believe that these women's obsession with cleanliness (which if you watch some of their interviews where they claim that they are just like everyone else; as in they have fun, love their families, and teach their children the importance of cleanliness), has to do with the fact they know just how "dirty" their situation is - and by situation I mean feeling guilt for allowing their young daughters to have sex with 55 year old men.
I can go on and on - but I will wait to see how this all pans out... and lets just hope that whatever comes of it, it will set a precendent in dealing with all of these other groups who are abusing their families and children, and abusing provisions that governments have for those in need.
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